Fasting and prayer for our marriges Day three.

God bless you as we come to the end of this fast . Once again thank you for joining in .
The two become one: "For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother,

and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh" (Eph. 5:31). This was the plan and the intention of God from the very beginning.
In 1 Corinthians 11:3 we read: "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God." Ephesians 5:23 says: "For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and He is the savior of the body."
A Christian husband should be the leader without being a dictator.He leads by love, understanding, and example. He is a servant like Jesus.Do you remember when He washed the feet of His disciples?
If a husband and wife really become one as the Bible INSTRUCTED them to do, there marriage will become a CONVENAT and more fulfilling . "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave Himself for it [her]" (Eph. 5:25). The Way to being a Christian husband and loving your wife is loving her as Christ loved the church. Jesus loved the church with a self-forgetting and self-sacrificing love, even unto death. This is the way Christian men should love their wives.
The Bible says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing” [Prov. 18:22]. “Rejoice with the wife of your youth” [Prov. 5:18].And in 1 Peter 3:7 we read: "Likewise, you husbands, dwell with them [your wives] according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered." To dwell with your wife according to knowledge you must do some knowing her to understand her.
Women submit to your
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.1 Peter 3:1 Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives .Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. Women be a proverb 31 woman and take lesson from Esther
 Esther 1:20 Then when the king's edict is proclaimed throughout all his vast realm, all the women will respect their husbands, from the least to the greatest."
Read the book of Esther . And make sure the covenat of marriage is fullfilled. God bles you for joining in for this fast may the Lord hear our prayers in Jesus name Amen
Please our men think on this to do them.
 1. Thou shalt love thy wife and commit thyself to her for a lifetime of oneness in marriage - divine and indivisible. Thou shalt make of thy marriage an exclusive relationship so that thy wife shall never have occasion to doubt thy love nor occasion for jealousy or lack of trust. As the scriptures say, "Husbands love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her" (Ephesians 5:25); "What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder" (Mark 10:9); "Cleave unto thy wife" (Genesis 2:24).

2. Thou shalt seek to understand thy wife. Thou shalt not be able to understand her, but thou shalt make a lifetime effort to do so. As the scriptures say, "Husbands, dwell with your wives according to knowledge" (1 Peter 3:7).

3. Thou shalt talk to thy wife when thou comest home from thy work, when thou sittest in thine house, when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. Thou shalt at times turn off the television to assure thy wife she is more cherished than your favorite program, for communication is an expression of love. As the scriptures say, "Live a life of love" (Ephesians 5:2).

4. Thou shalt not talk down to thy wife nor use sarcasm or ridicule. Thou shalt not belittle her, for her sense of self-worth is much dependent on your appreciation and encouragement of her. As the scriptures say, "Love is kind" (1 Corinthians 13:4), and again, "Do everything without complaining or arguing" (Philippians 2:14), and again, "In honor prefer one another" (Romans 12:10).

5. Thou shalt listen to thy wife, asking for her advice and opinions, and recognizing her mental abilities and talents, as Abraham asked and followed Sarah's advice. As the scriptures say, "Love is not proud or rude" (1 Corinthians 13:4-5.)

6. Thou shalt not lord it over thy wife, recognizing that the two of you are equal before God and that leadership in the home does not mean dictatorship. Neither does it mean being waited on nor having the best piece of chicken. Leadership means moral, financial, and spiritual responsibilities. Headship in the home also means sacrifice and service. As the scriptures say, "Submit yourselves one to another out of reverence for Christ" (Ephesians 5:21), and "Husbands, do not be harsh with them" (Colossians 3:19). Thou shalt not abdicate thy leadership role because of apathy or indifference, for love cares and bears all things.

7. Thou shalt see that thy wife is thy best friend. The closest of all human relationships is marriage and it should know joyous comradeship, with laughter and good humor. Thou shalt share affection and confidences with thy wife and long to be in her presence. As the scriptures say, "Live joyfully with thy wife whom thou lovest" (Ecclesiastes 9:9).

8. Thou shalt help thy wife in all those ways that sacrificial love would help, giving her of thy time, money, attention, affection (yea, even washing the dishes as needed), remembering that the scriptures say, "Bear ye one another's burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2).

9. Thou shalt accept thy wife as she is. Thou shalt not expect perfection. Thou shalt forgive her of her mistakes and confess thine own to her, remembering that "love covereth all sins" (Prov. 10:12). "Forgive each other as God in Christ has forgiven you" (Ephesians 4:32).

10. Thou shalt practice tenderness as the essential emotion, realizing that sex is a gift of God which expresses and enhances love. Sex is giving joy as well as receiving it. Thou shalt consider that nothing can erode the sexual union more than selfishness. Remember the scriptures say, "The husband's body does not belong to him alone, but also to his wife" (1 Corinthians 7:4); "Husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies" (Ephesians 5:28); "As ye would that (she) should do unto you do ye even so unto (her)” (Matthew 7:12).

11. Thou shalt in some way each day show thy wife that "I need you,” that “I appreciate you,” and that "I want to help you." So shalt thy marriage become a strong and blest tie that binds two hearts in Christian love.

12. And should thy marriage become trying and seemingly an endurance contest, thou shalt not give up. Thou shalt "bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things" (1 Corinthians 13:7). Thou shalt trust thy God who is love and who is the God of the resurrection to rekindle and renew thy love. Thou shalt treat thy wife as thou didst when love was new. And having done all, thou shalt "suffer long" and "cast thy burdens on the Lord" knowing that he careth for thee and thy mate (1 Peter 5:7).
Women submit to your
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.1 Peter 3:1 Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives .Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. Women be a proverb 31 woman and take lesson from Esther
 Esther 1:20 Then when the king's edict is proclaimed throughout all his vast realm, all the women will respect their husbands, from the least to the greatest."
Read the book of Esther . And make sure the covenat of marriage is fullfilled. God bles you for joining in for this fast may the Lord hear our prayers in Jesus name Amen
.Father, enable us to overcome the pride in our lives. Set us free from the pride that will hinder and hurt our marriage (1
Corinthians 13:5).
Lord, I ask that we would not be rude or thoughtless concerning each other (1 Corinthians 13:5).
God, deliver us from the selfishness that would hinder and hurt our relationship (1 Corinthians 13:5).
Lord, I ask that we would rejoice in each other's strengths and gifts and would pray concerning our weaknesses and sins
(1 Corinthians 13:6).
Father, I pray that You would give us a love that bears all things, believes all things, and hopes all things (1 Corinthians
13:7).
Lord, I plead that You would create in us a love that will endure the stress and problems that we will face (1 Corinthians
13:7).
Father, I ask that our love for one another will never fail (1 Corinthians 13:8).
Father, I plead that we would be faithful to attend and serve in the church of Jesus Christ (Hebrews 10:25).

PRAISE & WORSHIP
BIBLE READING: EPHESIANS, 6:12-22
CONFESSION: PHILIPPIANS, 2:10

DAY THREE MORNING:
1. Thank the name of the Lord.
2. Confess any sin that may stand against these prayers.
3. Arrest the environment with the blood of Jesus and the fire if the Holy Ghost.
4. All the hidden anti-marriage forces working against my marriage, be exposed and be disgraced in the name of Jesus.
5. Every silent power that is working tirelessly against my marriage, be exposed and be disgraced in Jesus name.
6. I release my marriage from the tight-hold of marriage destroyers in the name of Jesus.
7. Every power fueling marriage conflicts and hostilities in my life, I cut off your supply source in Jesus name.
8. I declare my marriage a no-go area for marriage destroyers in Jesus name.
9. Every power that is widening communication gap in my marriage, fall down and die in Jesus name.
10. The enemy will not use my marriage to get promotion in Jesus name.
11. I retrieve my marriage from every journey of destruction in Jesus name.
12. Every arrow of destruction presently in my marriage, jump out and go and destroy your sender in Jesus name.
13. I recover back every good and divine opportunity that I have lost to the enemy of my marriage, in the name Jesus.
14. Every satanic embargo placed upon my marriage, receive the sledgehammer of God and break to pieces in the name of Jesus.
15. _________ receive your divine senses back in the name of Jesus.
DAY THREE AFTERNOON:
16. Father, I thank you for what you have done and what you are going to do in my life and marriage.
17. Anything responsible for delay in my marital breakthrough, disappear by fire in the name of Jesus.
18. Lord Jesus, let your divine YES rest upon every desire if my heart in the name of Jesus.
19. Angel of the living God, go and minister favor on my behalf in the heart of my partner in the name of Jesus.
20. I receive the anointing of divine restoration in the name of Jesus.
21. You angel ministering reconciliation, you shall not fail over my case in the name of Jesus.
22. I claim every goodness, favor, miracles and breakthrough that is attached to today in the name of Jesus.
23. O Lord, deposit in my life spiritual magnet that attracts favor in the name of Jesus.
24. I rub with the blood every negative impression about my life in the heart and memory of any body in the name of Jesus.
25. Angel of the living God, torment to submission every troubler of my marriage in the name of Jesus.
26. Let every situation work together for my restoration in the name of Jesus.
27. Let every person that is involved in my marital problems become the vessels of restoration in the name of Jesus.
28. Anything in my life that is aiding any problems in my life, receive the fire of God in the name of Jesus.
29. (Lay you hand on you head) You my life receive the touch of God in the name of Jesus.
30. Any problems presently present in my life jump out by fire now in the name of Jesus.
DAY THREE NIGHT:
31. I dethrone every evil reigning king in my marriage in the name of Jesus.
32. I cut off the control and manipulations of strange women from over the life of ________ in the name of Jesus.
33. Every evil remote controlling power working in the life of ________ receive the fire of God and be betrayed in the name of Jesus.
34. You that satanic representative standing between and _______ be cleared off by the whirlwind of God.
35. I remove my marriage from the register of failure in the name of Jesus.
36. Father Lord let me eat the riches of prayers during this program in the name of Jesus.
37. The name of Jesus shall not fail over my case in the name of Jesus.
38. Every demonic rope tying down m marriage at demonic slaughtering slab, receive the fire of God and roast in the name of Jesus.
39. You power of marriage destruction, loose your hold upon my marriage in the name of Jesus.
40. I will not break down but I will breakthrough in my marriage in the name of Jesus.
41. Satanic jokers shall not work against me in my marriage in the name of Jesus.
42. Every arrow of marriage destroyers, go back to your sender in the name of Jesus.
43. Every satanic presence in my matrimonial home, disappear by fire in the name of Jesus.
44. Any satanic agent presently working on my picture, summersault and die in the name of Jesus.
45. Every satanic bullet fired against my marriage, come out by fire and go back to your sender in the name of Jesus

GIVE HIM PRAISE
2Chronicles 20:21-22
"And when he had consulted with the people, he appointed singers unto the LORD, and that should praise the beauty of holiness, as they went out before the army, and to say, Praise the LORD; for his mercy endureth for ever. And when they began to sing and to praise, the LORD set ambushments against the children of Ammon, Moab, and mount Seir, which were come against Judah; and they were smitten."
Psalm 22:3
"But thou art holy, O thou that inhabitest the praises of Israel."
Psalm 30:12
"To the end that my glory may sing praise to thee, and not be silent. O LORD my God, I will give thanks unto thee for ever."
Psalm 34:1
"I will bless the LORD at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth."
Psalm 47:6
"Sing praises to God, sing praises: sing praises unto our King, sing praises."
Psalm 63:4
"Thus will I bless thee while I live: I will lift up my hands in thy name."
Psalm 95:6
"O come, let us worship and bow down: let us kneel before the LORD our maker. "
Psalm 96:4
"For the LORD is great, and greatly to be praised: he is to be feared above all gods."
Psalm 149:6-9
"Let the high praises of God be in their mouth, and a twoedged sword in their hand; to execute vengeance upon the heathen, and punishments upon the people; to bind their kings with chains, and their nobles with fetters of iron; to execute upon them the judgment written: this honour have all his saints. Praise ye the LORD."
Psalm 150:3
"Praise him with the sound of the trumpet: praise him with the psaltery and harp
By: Emmanuel and Blessing Agbo.
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